The world of dating isn’t foreign to most high schoolers, as many of us go through relationships and breakups during our time here at Milford High School. However, this does not mean that high schoolers often do this “correctly.” Ladies, below is the Bible of dating, the holy grail and all you need to know about Boys 101. I’ll tell you what matters and what does not, as well as what you’re spending too much time on, and what you need to pay more attention to. So, sit back, relax, and let me take you on the journey of how to get a boyfriend. 

Having a Crush

Having a crush is probably the most awkward part of the “how to get a boyfriend handbook.” You don’t know how you feel; they don’t know how you feel. Everyone is confused. My advice is to find a mutual connection between the two of you, or someone to regulate the vibes between you and him. You can talk to this friend to feel out the energy from another perspective. 

Talking Stage

This is the stage where it goes wrong most times. People get bored, and they realize they don’t want a relationship after they find out more about you.. Just remember, everyone’s replaceable and his friend is probably just as cute as him. But in the case where the talking stage goes well, it usually leads to the first time hanging out. If not in a group setting, I recommend getting food with the person. It is something to do but still gives the opportunity for fun. The talking stage should last between 2-3 months; any longer than five months is a clue to LEAVE IMMEDIATELY. Now is when you should start telling your friends and let it be known that you and him are “talking.” Maybe post something on your Snapchat story with him and show your faces together. 

Dating

After the talking and the “thing” stage, dating should come next. Personally, I wouldn’t “ask a boy out,” but if that’s your thing, then go for it. The main thing for dating is to remember that they are with you for a reason. Don’t be jealous, let them have opposite gender friends, and don’t freak out if they don’t answer immediately. Basically, don’t assume the worst. Soon enough, you guys will become each other’s person and you will know what the other is  thinking before they say it. You probably won’t end up getting married, but it will be fun while it lasts. And remember, if he cheats, you can just delete his number.

All in all, having a significant other is fun, but it should not define you. You should never lose yourself within someone and always remember who you were before the relationship. The odds of that boy in your history class being your soulmate are slim, but take the chance because you never know what can come from it. I also feel legally obligated to disclose that I have only had one boyfriend.